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Corey

Thursday, June 30, 2011

The real difference between men and women.....

Hello Kiddies,
If no one minds I am just going to jump right into the subject at hand. Women have to work so much harder to achieve the goals they set and it is sometimes hard for men to understand. As if it were not enough for it to be always momma's baby and papa's maybe, women have to work so much harder in life than men do.

I am not saying that some things come easier to some women who have choosen to use their good looks to get what they want. Although the male species has found a way to make that into a dark side as well, I say own it sister! But for the woman that wants to be more and wants her man to be more and to want more it gets harder every day.

A man especially one in his late twenties has the advantage of not wanting to settle, but still gaining the kind of mate that he wants. A women especially if she is strong willed and determined has a hard time finding a man that will execpt her situation.

A man can be unemployed, have no education, and not really in a position to better the man that he should be, let alone do anything for his woman. Women adapt to the man, stand behind him, nurture him, and will even pay for his school. This same man will want a woman to change in order to be with him. Blame his insecurities on her, and sleep soundly at night knowing she can't sleep at night, thinking that the issues that he wants her to change are all her fault.

This is put on us as a woman, and we are always the ones with mood swings! Well if you ask me if you have a child, raise a child, go to school all while working a full time job and dealing with a selfish man-boy! Then you have the ability to rule the world. Women do any and everything, and all with a smile on her face and a gentle hug for child.

I tell you what, if you think you are man enough you are not until you can do the things that your woman can do! And still look like a fucking Goddess!

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